Losing a baby.

What a ridiculous term. Lose. We didn’t lose anything. Why do we minimalize the grieving process by putting Disney names to it? “Oh,..she passed”. No, passing is what you do when you are stuck behind a 94 year old sunday driver in no hurry to get home to watch the football game. Died. [...]

Miscarriage

This week was your birthday. We missed you. There were no blue toques to wear home from the hospital and no one bought you any blankies. There were no teddies stuffed into corners of your room, and no cigars to celebrate. No one received a phone call announcing your arrival. You missed your [...]